Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Tell Kids About Your Day

You love hearing about what your child did while you were apart, but have you ever stopped to think she might like hearing about your adventures? Even very young children can relate to some of the emotions you experience on the job, like enthusiasm or frustration. Some easy ways to share...

Blow off a bad day: Explain, "My boss was crabby. I'm going to 'shake it off.'

Talk about job satisfaction: "I was happy today because I know I helped people."

Explain how you tackle challenges. For instance, say, "I've got a speech to make and I'm a little scared, so I'm going to practice." (Older kids can make the connection between practice and performance.)

Celebrate triumphs: Say, "I just got a promotion because I've been trying so hard. Let's do something fun!"
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Sunday, August 27, 2006

Just Say No

Saying no to kids prepares them for disappointment - Chicago Sun-Times


Saying no to kids prepares them for disappointment
Chicago Sun-Times, United States - 6 hours ago
... Betsy Hart is the author of It Takes a Parent: How the Culture of Pushover Parenting is Hurting Our Kids -- and What to Do About It. ...

One of my favorite lines from The Princess Bride:

Inigo Montoya: Who are you?
Westley: No one of consequence.
Inigo Montoya: I must know...
Westley: Get used to disappointment.
Inigo Montoya: 'kay.

Parents today don't like to disappoint their children, I know I don't, but I also understand that disappointment is part of life, and to shield kids from disappointment is not healthy for them and can cause them to grow up with the idea that they should not be disappointed, never, ever.

Tell me what you think.

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